Tuesday, June 23, 2020


It’s surprisingly rare for a woman to look down on a guy who wants to guard the innocence of the relationship. To test this, I asked the thousand young women in my survey the following question: “If you were going too far with a guy, and he gave you a kiss on the forehead and said, “I think we need to slow down. I respect you too much to do all this with you, and I want to fall in love with you for all the right reasons,” would you find him more attractive, or less attractive?”

Almost 100 percent of the girls—995—said that they would find the guy more attractive. One girl said this was “because he was thinking about us and not just him.”

Another girl remarked, “I’m not going to lie. At first, I would be thinking, ‘What? What kind of guy says that?’ But then later that night I would be thinking, “I really like this guy.’” I posed a final question to these girls: “Some guys fear that being a virgin is embarrassing. How would you feel if a guy saved his virginity for you, his bride?” Again, the responses overwhelmingly indicated the attractiveness of purity. Here are some of their replies:

“He is the kind of guy I’d need to snatch up before the rest of the billions of girls did.”

“Stop worrying about what others say. It means so much if you wait!”

“That is hot.”

“It’s okay to be a virgin. In fact, most girls prefer it.”

“It takes a lot for a guy to stay a virgin, and I love boys like that—who don’t care what
people think!!!”

“He’s more manly than most guys.”

“They shouldn’t be embarrassed. I’m not.”

“His bride is going to be lucky.”

“Thank God for guys like him.”

“A lot of girls like myself find it geeky when a guy is scared if he’s a virgin. He should be

“I’d feel like a true princess, because that’s how I want to feel on my wedding night.”

“I’d want him more!”

“This is the most beautiful thing a man can give his bride. It sums up the essence of
being a man in one choice. He has promised his whole self, including his body.”

“Awesome. I won’t feel like I’m all his past girlfriends.”

“He can respect you more if he respects himself”.

(J. Evert – Pure Manhood)