They didn't love each other, they didn't know each other, they only possessed each other.

"The problem with many marriages today is that they were never engaged, they were lovers. They never got to know each other, they didn't plan, they didn't dream, they didn't build together, they were never honest or transparent, they just acted, presenting everything as 'nice.'

They never loved each other, they only desired each other...and even possessed each other. They weren't engaged, they were lovers, each owning the other.

Without a true engagement, a marriage will never work."

Fr. Fernando Cerero Ugarte